If you’re sure your man is turned off by your trackie bottoms or make-up-free-face, think again. NO MAKE-UP 1. APPARENTLY women spend more than #180,000 in a lifetime on beauty products, but Relate counsellor Mo Kurimbokus says we don’t need to. “When a woman doesn’t wear make-up, her natural beauty is on display. “Also, some […]

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Every French man knows that like all good wines, women mature with age, in both beauty and brains. There’s a general consensus that women love tall men, or at the very least taller than them. I am not sure what the benefits of being lanky are; my legs hurt in economy, the game limbo where […]

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One of the best ways to help your girlfriend to feel more relaxed about sex may be to stop having it for a while. Q. My girlfriend is self-conscious during sex. She seems unable to fully let go and really enjoy herself. She’s in her early 30s and has had a few partners, so it’s […]

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So how do you know if you’re on the road to becoming a real couple, or if things are going to stay casual forever? According to guys. When you start dating someone and things are going really well, there is usually shift towards being super casual with each other and becoming more serious. This shift […]

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With so much research showing that young males suffer beneath the gravity of conventional masculinity, why isn’t there more help for them on campus? Last semester, a student in the masculinity course I teach showed a video clip she had found online of a toddler getting what appeared to be his first vaccinations. Off camera, […]

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“I had an opportunity to have a long discussion with her fiance the day before he proposed” My daughter recently became engaged, and I had an opportunity to have a long discussion with her fiance the day before he proposed about her, marriage, and living life together. The topic of how hard he wants to […]

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“I love to use jealousy as a way to create intimacy and turn on in the moment it’s happening.” “A common problem I run into with men is that they don’t know what to do with their jealousy.  Its such a primal, volatile and vulnerable emotion.  Most of us react one of two ways, we […]

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Are you longing to go deeper in your dating relationship but not sure how to connect and take your relationship to the next level? Eric Charles gives a man’s point of view on what your beau is looking for.  What does it take to get a man to truly commit and want only you? It’s […]

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Actions speak louder than words! What does your subtle movement during lovemaking tell your partner about your love? Body movement during sex, right from foreplay, says a lot. If a woman pulls back from a touch, or takes her lips away from a kiss or has her hands over her boobs… Sometimes we say more […]

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Are you willing to let your Man take the Lead? How adventurous are you in Love to step out of your comfort zone and try out a suggestion from your partner?    Should we help him feel like a “conqueror”? Allowing men to take the lead sometimes helps men stay committed to the relationship. From  […]

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