Once upon a time, two newlywed lovers rode off into the sunset. It was a perfect end to a perfect day: The Bride (wearing an off-beat vintage dress that totally said “I’m not like other brides”) took a celebratory swig from a flask in the passenger seat. Her Groom squinted like a sultry James Dean, […]

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I’ve been the target and I’ve been the obsessed and neither of them feel great. Scenario One: You can’t stop thinking about him.  You go to sleep thinking about him and wake up wondering what he’s doing.  When you wake up, you already have a message from him saying that he can’t stop thinking about […]

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Summer lovin’ had me a blast. Summer lovin’ happened so fast. I know, technically it’s still spring, but let’s be realistic, people are solidifying their Memorial Day Weekend plans and then all of a sudden it’s summer and if we don’t start thinking about it now, we’ll be ill prepared when everyone else is all […]

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ACCEPT THE INVITATION One time I was totally having a wonderful conversation with a guy and near the end of our time at work he asked me what I would be doing at the end of the shift. I took that as an indication that he was no longer interested in having a conversation with […]

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For 23 years, I’ve always felt like it’s been my responsibility to make the first move in dating situations. It’s not like anyone has ever formally told me this would be my responsibility either. It’s just one of those concepts that has been instilled in me by society — whether through popular culture or other forms […]

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She was 34 and she meant business, so she placed an ad with an online dating service and let the e-mails roll in. Last year, in under six months, I dated more than 100 men. I dated on beaches, on hiking trails, on the back of a Harley-Davidson. I told more than 100 men about […]

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The ways we perceive the actions of others reflect how we see ourselves. I knew I had a problem with shame because of how I’d been treating my partner. It began innocently enough. “Are you really going to eat all of that?” I’d ask playfully, as if monitoring his eating would negate my own cravings. […]

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Have you seen these headlines? ‘Millennial Commitment-Phobia Threatens the Future of Love.’ ‘Are Dating Apps the End of Romance?’  ‘Love is Dead, and Millennials Killed It.’ Thanks for the laughs, Google. I wholeheartedly disagree. While everyone is different, I believe that most Millennials do believe in love and commitment in some form or another. The fact that […]

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From mind-reading on a date to tuning into psychic alarm bells, how you can use your sixth sense to find the perfect man… Are you fed up looking for love in all the wrong places? It might be time to tune in to your intuition. As a psychic consultant, I believe the real reason we […]

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I don’t know how to love men. There. I said it. I didn’t grow up with a positive male figure. The constant male presence in my life was toxic. So the only men that looked good to me were in the books and the movies and the songs. Now, that I am an adult, well […]

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